Rebel Recovery & Freedom

Recovery Without Shame. Freedom Without Conditions.

Rebel Recovery & Freedom is a recovery-oriented peer-support and creative wellbeing approach developed by Kaan Singh. It welcomes people exploring addictive or compulsive patterns, whether around substances, gambling, spending, relationships, work or other behaviours. Every person's experience is different, and these patterns do not all share the same causes.

  • Recovery without shame
  • Accountability without humiliation
  • Compassionate exploration of patterns
  • Community, reflection and personal agency
  • Bring your identity, culture, faith and queerness with you

This is a peer-support and reflective approach, not medical or psychological treatment. Read our safety information.

Our approach

Three ways of looking gently at patterns.

Reflection

Understanding patterns

Kaan's approach invites you to look at the relationship between habits, feelings, coping strategies and the circumstances of your life, with curiosity rather than judgement.

What is this behaviour protecting me from — and what is it asking me to heal?

This is a journalling prompt to explore, not an explanation of addiction. Not every pattern comes from pain, and you decide what fits.

Sikh-inspired wisdom

The Five Thieves

The programme draws inspiration from the Five Thieves in Sikhi, a spiritual framework for reflecting on what can pull us away from ourselves.

  • Kaam — lust or uncontrolled desire
  • Krodh — anger
  • Lobh — greed
  • Moh — attachment
  • Ahankar — ego

These are offered as a lens for reflection, not as medical diagnoses or causes of addiction. People of all faiths and none are welcome.

Writing

Shadow journalling

A reflective writing practice for noticing patterns, emotions, beliefs and experiences you might usually look away from.

  • Shame and self-judgement
  • Grief and loneliness
  • Anger and fear
  • Attachment and belonging
  • Habits and triggers
  • Personal boundaries
  • Hope and change

You are never required to write about or disclose traumatic experiences, or to complete any exercise that feels too intense.

Planned approach

Accountability partners, not sponsors

Kaan's model pairs people with an accountability partner who may help with:

  • Regular check-ins
  • Realistic intentions
  • Recognising patterns
  • Encouragement
  • Celebrating progress
  • Returning to support after setbacks

The intention is that nobody is shamed or turned away after a relapse. Partner matching, availability and boundaries are still being developed; there is no matching service yet.

Accountability without shame

You can take responsibility and still be treated with dignity.

Accountability

Recognising your behaviour, taking responsibility, repairing harm where appropriate, and choosing a constructive next step.

Shame

Feeling fundamentally unworthy, or believing you are defined forever by what you have done.

We hold onto accountability and let go of shame. That does not guarantee recovery or prevent relapse, but it can make it easier to keep coming back.

Our two recovery circles

Two pathways, one shared philosophy.

Both circles offer peer support and creative reflection. Neither is clinical addiction treatment.

Circle one

Rebel Recovery & Freedom Circle

For anyone seeking a shame-free, reflective approach to recovery. You do not need to call yourself an addict, and you do not need to hold any particular spiritual belief.

  • Addictive and compulsive patterns
  • Journalling and self-reflection
  • The Five Thieves
  • Triggers and cravings
  • Personal accountability
  • Self-compassion
  • Supportive community
  • Healthier routines and relationships
Circle two

Queer Rebel Recovery & Freedom Circle

A recovery-oriented space designed for LGBTQ+ people. Some LGBTQ+ people face particular challenges around identity, stigma, family, discrimination, belonging and finding affirming support. Others don't. Whatever your story, you are welcome.

  • Being LGBTQ+ and exploring recovery
  • Identity and belonging
  • Faith, culture and sexuality
  • Family and chosen family
  • Relationships and boundaries
  • Shame and self-protection
  • Social environments and peer pressure
  • Rebuilding meaningful connections
  • Finding joy and community

You should not have to become less queer to become more free.

Visit the LGBTQ+ Safe Space
What a circle looks like

Six gentle steps.

  1. Welcome and grounding

    Arriving and settling in.

  2. Optional check-in

    Share only what feels comfortable, or nothing at all.

  3. Reflection and journalling

    Exploring a topic or prompt together.

  4. Circle sharing

    Voluntary, always with the option to pass.

  5. Practical next steps

    Intentions for the week, and useful resources.

  6. Closing

    Encouragement and connection before you go.

Nobody has to share personal experiences. Groups will agree on respect and privacy, but no group can promise complete confidentiality. Circles will only run once facilitators have clear safeguarding and confidentiality boundaries in place.

Is this right for me?

It may suit you if you…

Rebel Recovery & Freedom will not be right for everyone or for every situation. If you need medical detoxification, withdrawal management or specialist addiction treatment, please seek qualified healthcare support first. A circle can sit alongside that support, never in place of it.

  • Want recovery-oriented support without judgement
  • Have not felt comfortable in traditional recovery spaces
  • Are drawn to creativity, reflection and community
  • Value spirituality or Sikh-inspired wisdom
  • Want an LGBTQ+-affirming space
  • Are exploring your relationship with substances or behaviours
Safety and support

Please read this first.

Rebel Recovery & Freedom is a peer-support and creative wellbeing programme. It is not a substitute for medical detoxification, addiction treatment, therapy or emergency care.

Stopping suddenly can be dangerous. Suddenly stopping alcohol or certain drugs can cause serious withdrawal that may need medical supervision. Please speak to your GP, NHS 111 or a specialist service before stopping, and do not try to manage serious withdrawal on your own.

A peer-support circle cannot safely manage a crisis. If you are in crisis, please get urgent help rather than waiting for a circle.

  • 999Immediate danger or a medical emergency
  • NHS 111Urgent advice. In England, choose the mental-health option
  • Samaritans 116 123Emotional support, any time, free
Need Support? page
Our coaching philosophy

How we intend to hold these spaces.

Facilitator and coach details will be shared once they are confirmed.

CompassionNon-judgementTrauma-aware practiceReflection and journallingRespect for culture, faith and identityClear boundaries and signposting
Join a circle

Recovery is not obedience. Recovery is rebellion.

You are not too broken to begin again. You are not too much to be supported. You are not alone.

Circle dates and registration details will be announced soon.